I would like your thoughts on bedtime routines.

Do you have a set routine that you have used or use with your children and if so, what is it?

Perhaps you prefer the flexibility of not having them in bed by a set time. If so, please explain how much scope you allow them. Is it within an hour for example of a certain time or just whenever you feel the time is right?

When I was small, we were all bathed and in bed by 8pm whether we were tired or not. With my own son that just didn't work and we took the latter approach.

What I am trying to judge is how much bedtime routines have changed in the last few decades and if the rigid bedtime routine is as popular a choice, and just as effective, as it was back then.

Any ideas on that would be appreciated. Thanks!