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How to express dislike without offending?

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Posted by: Kay
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I would like some ideas please on how to tactfully say you don't like something without hurting the person's feelings. I have an acquaintance who has asked me for an honest opinion on her artwork and I don't think it has crossed her mind that I won't like it.


Now I know taste in art is a very personal thing. Truth is, I simply do not like her paintings at all. She's into abstracts which hold no appeal for me. I don't want to lie and say I like it when I don't. She might then ask me if I'd buy one and it would be hard to extricate myself from that! However I don't want to offend her either.


How can I be diplomatic and honest at the same time? Is it better to say nothing and hope she doesn't ask me again next time I see her? She is not the type that would take the hint that silence speaks volumes. While she's not a close friend, I do like her and know she's very proud of what she creates. I don't want to rain on her parade because I'm just one person's opinion.


Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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